Save the usual TV series for another night. Here are three ways to feel a little closer — from playful flirting to the conversation you have been meaning to have.
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Three answers to “What shall we do?”
Set the mood for your evening.
There is no order to follow. Choose what appeals to both of you and change direction whenever you like.
01Light and playfulA little flirting, all over again
For an evening of smiles, lingering looks and remembering what draws you to each other.
Suggested pace
Around 10 minutes, or as long as you like
What you need
Two small pieces of paper and a comfortable spot
How to play
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Each of you writes three things you particularly like about your partner right now: one about their appearance, one about their personality and one about a moment you shared.
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Take turns reading your notes aloud. Your partner can guess which moment you mean or tell their side of the memory.
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Finish the round with a little invitation — a dance to one song, a cuddle or an unhurried kiss. Then let your partner take the next turn.
02A little more opennessThe conversation you have been missing
Move beyond the usual “How are you?” and discover what your partner enjoys, what’s on their mind and what attracts them right now.
Suggested pace
About 15–20 minutes, without watching the clock
What you need
A quiet spot and a willingness to listen
How to play
1
Take turns answering this question: “When do you feel especially good with me?” Don’t look for a right answer — share your own.
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Then each of you suggests one idea for a future date and one small change to your evenings. Talk about what you would both enjoy trying.
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Choose one shared wish for tonight and another for a different day. Leave the other ideas as possibilities, rather than obligations.
03In a bolder moodLet the next turn surprise you
Spend less time inventing ideas and more time playing. Choose your themes and take turns opening tasks.
Suggested pace
Start with a few cards and follow your mood
What you need
A phone with Sex Play and a little curiosity
How to play
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First, tell each other what sounds good tonight and what you do not want to try. Choose suitable categories in the Sex Play settings.
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Begin with a gentle round. For example, invite your partner to choose a song and share a slow dance without looking at the screen.
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Then move on to the cards and take turns. Read each task, decide whether you both like it and simply skip anything that does not suit you.
First, make a little room for each otherMake an ordinary evening yours.
You do not need a perfect home or a special occasion. Just put aside the things that stop you noticing each other.
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Give yourselves unhurried time
Set the chores aside and silence unnecessary notifications. Keep your phone for the game, rather than work messages.
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Set your own atmosphere
Softer lighting, music you love and a comfortable spot together. You are getting cosy, not setting a stage.
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Agree on one simple thing
Either of you can skip any question or activity. A good evening does not depend on finishing the whole plan.
There is more to your evening
In the mood to keep going?
A game can suggest ideas. You always decide which ones become part of your evening.
A task from the game
An idea, an illustration and a timer on one card. Choose your themes before starting the game.
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Open the card game
Choose your themes and start with gentle tasks. You can raise the level during the game and pass one screen between you.
Free categories are available. Some categories and the two-device mode require Pro; using two devices also requires accounts and a linked partner.
The three ideas and examples on this page are ready to use. You can start the card game with free categories without signing in. Saving answers, finding shared wishes and playing on two devices require an account; some features also require Pro.
Do we have to try all three ideas?
No. Pick one, combine the parts you like or stop after your first conversation. The times here are only a suggested pace, not a timer or a promise of how long a game will last.
Do we need candles, special purchases or alcohol?
No. A comfortable spot and attention to each other are enough. The first idea uses paper, and the card game uses a phone. Music and lighting you both enjoy can set the atmosphere.
What if we prefer different ideas?
Begin with something you both enjoy. Take turns making suggestions, change the mood and skip any activity. The game helps you start an evening; it does not decide how that evening has to unfold.