A little game of opening up
Intimate questions. Just the two of you.
Sometimes one good question beats a whole evening of messaging. Find out what draws you in, what gets you excited and what you want to talk about when nobody else is listening.
What little detail about me still turns you on?
Read it out. Take turns answering.
Choose your starting point
From a spark to something personal.
Go in order or jump to the topic that catches your eye. Read a question out loud and both answer — you each have your own version of your story.
01A little flirting firstThe spark6 questions
Remember what drew you to each other. And what still does.
- 01
What little detail about me still turns you on?
- 02
When did you first feel a spark between us?
- 03
Which of our kisses would you love to experience again?
- 04
When do you find me especially attractive, even if I don't notice it?
- 05
What compliment would you love to hear from me right now?
- 06
Which moment we've shared would you turn into a movie scene?
02A little less talkingTouch6 questions
What feels good to you. No mind reading required.
- 07
What kind of touch makes you feel wanted right away?
- 08
Do you find unexpected tenderness or a slow build-up more exciting?
- 09
How can I show that I want to get closer in a way you'd enjoy?
- 10
What helps you relax and focus entirely on us?
- 11
What kind of caresses would you like more often?
- 12
How do you like to let me know you're in a playful mood?
03For the curiousDesires6 questions
Not a to-do list. Just room for your what-ifs.
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What might be fun for us to try together that we haven't talked about yet?
- 14
What would you like to ask me for, but the right moment never seems to come?
- 15
What would our perfect evening look like if we had nowhere to rush tomorrow?
- 16
What surprise from me would you find genuinely tempting?
- 17
Is there a look or role you'd be curious to see me try?
- 18
What familiar thing would you like us to do differently — slower, bolder or simply in a new way?
04Worth knowingCloser6 questions
Closeness starts with paying attention. Sometimes you just need to ask.
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What gesture of mine makes you feel that I notice your desires?
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How can we talk about what we don't enjoy without losing the mood?
- 21
Has anything changed lately about what you enjoy when we're intimate?
- 22
When do you feel most free to be yourself with me?
- 23
What from our last evening together would you definitely like to repeat?
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What should I ask you today to make the evening more interesting for both of us?
No right answers. Just real curiosity.
Take your time, ask follow-up questions and skip anything you're not ready to discuss. The conversation matters more than finishing the list.
What if you answered separately?
Find where your desires meet.
The questions here are made for conversation. In the Sex Play game, you can also answer separately and then compare shared interests with your partner. It's another way to open up.
Sign in or create an account to play. Pack access depends on your subscription and language; some packs are free.A few questions about the questions
Before you begin
How do we play with these questions?
Pick a topic, read one question out loud and both answer. Ask more, share memories, flirt. You can start with a few questions and save the rest for another evening.
What if I don't want to answer?
Simply skip that question. Even close partners don't want to discuss everything at every moment. You don't need to explain why.
Is this a sexual compatibility test?
No. There are no scores, diagnoses or relationship ratings. These are conversation starters. The separate Sex Play game compares interests, but it doesn't predict your future together either.
Can we read these without signing up or paying?
Yes, all 24 questions on this page are available straight away. The separate game with saved answers and interest matching requires an account and has its own access conditions.